Takeaway
It's normal to feel anxious during uncertain times. However, there are tools we can practice so that our anxieties don't overwhelm us. Remind yourself to come back to the present using a phrase such as "This moment is the only reality" or "One moment at a time."
Lifelong Learning in Clinical Excellence | March 26, 2020 | 2 min read
By Neda Gould, PhD, Johns Hopkins Medicine
Our brains don’t like uncertainty and we are certainly in uncertain times. We view uncertainty as a potential threat to our well-being. When a situation is uncertain, we can’t plan and take appropriate actions, and this can feel unsettling. We may try to curtail this anxiety by gathering a lot of information via various media outlets. On the one hand this can be very useful. On the other hand, the constant barrage of information can further increase feelings of anxiety.
It’s important to remember that some anxiety is useful. It motivates us to act. However, when anxiety is impairing or begins to significantly interfere with our ability to function, it’s important to address it.
Here are six tips I share with patients and colleagues:
1. Limit your access to all the information (e.g., check a few reliable sources and limit it to once or twice a day).
2. Remember that the mind can fixate on catastrophic outcomes. Note the facts of the current situation and don’t add an additional “story” to the situation (usually these stories start with “what if . . .”). The facts can be stressful enough.
3. Different individuals have different methods of coping with stress. Think creatively about your coping strategies. What’s worked for you in the past? Is there anything new you’d like to try?
4. Any form of relaxation or mindfulness can turn off the stress response and allow us to think more clearly and effectively. Pause and take a few deep breaths several times a day. Tell yourself that this moment is the only reality. Take some time to listen to guided meditations before bed or first thing in the morning. When the mind wanders to stressful thoughts during the day, practice noting the thoughts and returning to the activity you’re engaged in. By doing this, you’re not consumed by worries the entire day.
5. Practice gratitude or look for a silver lining. Even amid the stress of global events can you find things to be grateful for? Perhaps the opportunity to spend a few extra minutes in nature or the sun shining through your window. List a few of these before bed or in the morning.
6. Remind yourself that we’re all in this together . . . and that this too shall pass.
If you need additional help, don’t hesitate to contact your primary care provider, a therapist, or your employee assistance program.