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Supporting Those With AUD Through The Holidays

Cranberry mocktails at holiday gatherings are a great inclusive drink to serve when hosting.


Find a way to celebrate this holiday season that includes and validates those who may be in recovery. 

The holiday season is a time of great anxiety for those who have experienced loss or trauma. Rates of alcohol use disorder (AUD) have skyrocketed in the aftermath of the pandemic and as we come together this holiday season it’s important to be mindful of friends, colleagues and loved ones who may be challenged by AUD. Festivities are almost always coupled with alcoholic drinks, however we need to be mindful of those who may be struggling to maintain sobriety. Nancy Stearns Bercaw writes in the “Washington Post” of her own struggles after seven years of sobriety and shares some suggestions to help friends and colleagues navigate this trying season. 


1. AUD is a chronic disease and requires ongoing behavioral and lifestyle modifications to keep it under control.

Those in recovery may avoid celebrations entirely. Creating alcohol-free celebrations without judgment should be considered. 


2. Don’t ask a sober friend or colleague for permission to drink, as a person in recovery finds this insensitive and that it puts her in a position to comfort the asker. 


3. Offer to be a “sober buddy” at events, or plan events that don’t center around drinking– get creative, break the mold, host a paint night, or outdoor caroling. 


4. As a host, offer non-alcoholic options to create an atmosphere of inclusion.

Again, get creative and make appealing non-alcoholic options in well-labelled sparkly pitchers or bottles. Many festive non-alcoholic beverages can be mixed with a flourish and websites with recipes abound.


5. If a colleague or friend is newly sober, offer alternatives to the traditional holiday party, like a smaller gathering without alcohol, or an activity together in celebration of the holiday.

Deferring getting together, offering a “rain check” until after the holidays may also reduce the pressure to socialize that a newly sober friend or colleague might be experiencing. 


One of the lessons of the pandemic has been that isolation and lack of social support lead to ill health and may exacerbate AUD. Find a way to celebrate this holiday season in a way that includes and validates those who may be in recovery and working to heal. 


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This piece expresses the views solely of the author. It does not necessarily represent the views of any organization, including Johns Hopkins Medicine.