Laura Hanyok, MD, Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine
If I’m having a frustrating day, while I’m in it I think about what I’m going to eat for dinner that night. This helps me get through it! I try to make it reasonably healthy, like takeout from a fast casual place. Something like that gives me something to look forward to and makes life easier especially if I don’t have to cook!
After a frustrating day, I give myself some “mindless” me time once my work and family obligations are done. I’ll watch one of my favorite TV shows, start a puzzle, or browse (but not buy from) my favorite online stores. As caregivers who are physicians, we don’t always allow ourselves time to do “nonproductive” things, and for me accomplishing nothing for a couple hours helps to give me brain a break.
Margaret Chisolm, MD, Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine
I enjoy cooking elaborate three-course meals together with my husband—especially after a stressful day. We plan and shop for the meals on the weekend so that we can dive right into preparation when I come home from work. Immersing myself in this shared activity immediately turns my focus away from the busy workday and allows me to unwind.
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Mrin Shetty, MD, Saint Peter’s University Hospital, New Brunswick, New Jersey
I like to read Rumi. His words call you to your higher self, reminding you of your purpose amidst the chaos.
When you do things
From your soul
You feel a river moving in you
A joy.
~Rumi
Panagis Galiatsatos, MD, Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine
I rely on my friends and family. They help me see beyond a bad day and put things in perspective. Insight into who I am by those who know me best always helps put a frustrating day into context and reminds me that tomorrow will be a better day.
Rachel Salas, MD, Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine
I disconnect once I get home. Often I call my sister or a friend.
I read DailyOms—these can be helpful just to help me reflect.
I remember that everyone has bad days. This was just one for me. Tomorrow will be better.
I remind myself that most of the time whatever happened was not likely personal.
Finally, I try to have something I’m looking forward to, like an upcoming trip. This helps me to look ahead and while today was a “#!#$*!!” I’ll soon be on a beach somewhere.
Mattan Schuchman, MD, Johns Hopkins University School of Medicine
The Great British Baking Show is really a great way to decompress.
If that doesn’t do the trick, then baking something myself surely does– especially desserts!
