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Share a story of a time you suggested a patient ask forgiveness from someone they may have wronged.

Takeaway

“I typically don’t give advice of any kind to patients but instead provide a supportive space for them to reflect on experiences and goals. During this process, many patients come to realize the importance to their own healing of asking forgiveness of themselves and others.”-Dr. Margaret Chisolm, Johns Hopkins Medicine

Passion in the Medical Profession | September 17, 2021 | <1 min read

Highlights

Dr. Mike Fingerhood, Johns Hopkins Medicine

In the process of recovery and working the steps of AA, my patients frequently chat with me about making amends with family and friends they have hurt.

Dr. Vignesh Doraiswamy, Ohio State

Can’t say that I’ve done this, but I’ve certainly asked for forgiveness on behalf of my entire healthcare team for things that have been missed or when patients haven’t had great outcomes.

What do you think?

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Dr. Zackary Berger, Johns Hopkins Medicine

I would ask: have our institutions asked forgiveness from the patients they have wronged? Have we, who are complicit with them? Could we legitimately request that forgiveness (Jewish practice suggests not unless we are directly at fault)?

Dr. Margaret Chisolm, Johns Hopkins Medicine

I typically don’t give advice of any kind to patients but instead provide a supportive space for them to reflect on experiences and goals. When patients explicitly ask for my advice, I let them know that if I give advice that works out well, then they won’t be able to take credit for this success, and if the advice works out badly they may blame me, and that I prefer to help them come up with their own ideas to try. During this process, many patients come to realize the importance to their own healing of asking forgiveness of themselves and others. In fact, for patients who attend AA or NA meetings, making amends is a step in their recovery.

Dr. Rachel Levine, Johns Hopkins Medicine

I’ve had discussions with patients around self-forgiveness ,especially when they’ve felt guilt about not meeting their health goals.

Dr. Scott Wright, Johns Hopkins Medicine

A patient recently told me about feeling extremely guilty about something she did long ago in her past. There was nothing that she could do about it because she was no longer in contact with the person that she wronged. In listening, she expressed that talking about it made her feel better. I urged her to forgive herself. She did and when I saw her in follow-up she told me that she felt as if a weight had been lifted off her and that she was feeling much better.